So, could someone explain this shit to me?

Ok, sometimes females are interested with me and I don't quite get what they expect me to do.
For example when I was a young teen on colony holidays, one pretty girl came to my room and started chatting with me. At one point she asked me "why are you so cold?".
Could someone explain this shit to me?

They're looking for affection, love, and attention. They want to be complimented, held, and talked to.

What CM said.

Although I can't say you didn't do a fine job there, after all, she's a complete stranger and you can't trust a stranger so easily. Next thing you know, you're getting gang-beat and mugged or wake up in a ice bath, missing a kidney or end up in some body dump.

Don't trust strangers without first knowing about them.

ChaosMonkey wrote:They're looking for affection, love, and attention. They want to be complimented, held, and talked to.

So, she expected to be instantly held or complimented or stuff like that O_o ?